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Originally Posted by PinkSugar

This past spring I participated in formal rush and did not recieve any invites for pref. night. I was wondering if the sisters think I look pathetic/silly going through the recruitment process again? I've gone to "meet the sisters" gatherings that are preperation for informal fall recruitment, so hopefully this shows my interest in joining.The school I attend is small, not competitive and will also have an informal recruitment class size of around 8.

Originally Posted by 33girl

OK, just to recapitulate:

You went through informal rush in September 2009 and only visited one house, who did not offer you a bid.

Then you went through formal rush in January 2010 and got cut by all the chapters, including the "nerdy" one.

I think you'd better hang it up, darlin. This is a small Greek system and everyone knows who you are at this point. If you haven't gotten a bid by now, it's not gonna happen, unless one of the groups loses 3/4 of their members over the summer or something.

She also posted a similar question two months ago.

Originally Posted by PinkSugar

During informal recruitment I only attended one houses party out of four and did not receive a bid. I just finished formal recruitment about a month ago and the night before pref. I had been invited back to three out of four houses, but pref. night I received no invites. I really would like to join so that I can have a more positive college experience but I'm afraid to rush again because it feels like my chances are very low. Has anyone else gone through three times or have any of you members seen girls rush three times? What are your thoughts?

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...d.php?t=111578

Maybe she thinks that the answers will change.