Wait a minute...you say you are a member of this organization but trying to figure out whether or not you should AFFILITATE with them based on what people say about them on this board? This is one thing I will never understand about traditional GLOs. I am a member of a national Latina sorority and in my mind, there is no CHOICE about whether or not I affiliate with any of my chapters. For better or for worse, they are MY SISTERS and I would never pretend like I do not share a bond with them. If for some reason my sisters are not putting their best forward, it is MY JOB to point out what they are doing or failing to do so they can correct it. This is what sisters DO.

I had the oppportunity to join numerous Panhellenic organizations when I was in college, but it was examples of "sisterhood with conditions" that turned me off.