I'm a huge proponent of hyphenated last names or just adding his last name after yours. I prefer the hyphen because people can't shorten that.
I was my last name all of my life and he can't show up and erase that.
Many of my friends either have hyphenated last names or never added his or her name at all.
ETA: He's making a big deal out of it because of the nature of patriarchy and male dominance.