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Originally Posted by PinkSugar

This past spring I participated in formal rush and did not recieve any invites for pref. night. I was wondering if the sisters think I look pathetic/silly going through the recruitment process again? I've gone to "meet the sisters" gatherings that are preperation for informal fall recruitment, so hopefully this shows my interest in joining.The school I attend is small, not competitive and will also have an informal recruitment class size of around 8.

This depends on your school. At some schools, girls who didn't get bids can successfully receive informal recruitment bids, at others, it doesn't happen.

Also, ask yourself "What is different this time?"

Generally speaking, something has to be different the 2nd time around in order for chapters to take a second look.

Example: Were your grades low? Were you really shy?