[lil_sunshine]

Originally posted by Blackwatch
But never say women like Oprah Winfrey can cheat, because of a double standard that exists between men and women (when men cheat, we are "studs", but when women cheat, they are 'sluts').

He said "She knows I'm coming home to her, so what's the problem?" as if he never really expected to remain faithful to his wife.

I think that the double standard DOES exist, but I don't think that men that cheat are studs. I think that both parties will become walking HIV/AIDS timebombs waiting to explode. Everytime a person cheats, they are sleeping with all of the people that the other person slept with. It'll be an ongoing cycle and you never know if the person that you're cheating with is HIV- or HIV+. And how many people actually take the time out to ask what the person's HIV status is? NOT MANY, IF ANY AT ALL!!! AIDS is a scary thing and it's still out there. But not many cheaters think about these types of things when they're cheating, do they????? And just b/c a man is going home to his wife/girlfriend doesn't mean that he won't be bringing something home to her as a result of his infidelity. There are many women who were faithful to their significant others/husbands and contracted HIV from them, not knowing that he was unfaithful until receiving the HIV+ status from the doctor. JMHO....