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Sometimes what you want isn't what you get. Sometimes the way you view yourself isn't the way others see you. (and that can be good or bad). Sometimes your perfect fit isn't the fit for the house.
When I went through there was a house that I thought was perfect for me. The girl who rushed me was me. She was the only person who rushed me because that's the way her house handled recruitment. I didn't get asked back. I wasn't asked back because at that time her house (and all others on our Row, except one) were restricted. It wasn't about what I wanted, or what the other girl wanted (she fought hard for me as I understand), it was the way it was. And sometimes the way life is isn't fair or good or happy or is just plain wrong. You just don't always get what you want. Incidentally, sometimes a house wants you desperately, but you don't want them: they invested lots of time and effort in rushing you. You say no thank you (the thank you part is importent).
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