[SWTXBelle]

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My comment to Belle was in response to her original comment where she took a shot at me. She removed the post, however, so now I look like a jerk. She finished by saying "I'm just sayin" so I was mimicking her post. It was completely in jest, lighten up.

Kappa Sigs do not disrespect women, whatsoever, and that kind of behavior is not tolerated. If a girl wants to jump in and call me a fucking idiot, I shouldn't react. Also, Belle took my comments and ran with them. I never said anything negative towards women.
And is response to your comment, Belle, that "we're not awesome" enough, thanks for that. (Where are you at attacking her Stu?) So, Belle, don't assume anything. Our guys are top notch, despite the year and a half peer bashing they've received from the other groups.
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I explained point by point using your exact words why I interpreted your postings as I did. GCers can decide for themselves if I am off-base. Several women have informed you that they do in fact believe you have made negative comments about women. You may not have intended to - I'll give you the benefit of the doubt - but the fact is that is how they read. You may either become defensive, or might I suggest you go clean up your posts so they focus on your arguments for Kappa Sigma at FGCU?

I have not called you any names, nor have I used any language which a lady would not use. If you look like a jerk, it is entirely of your own doing.

I made one cheap shot, realized it was exactly that, and took it down. It was up for a matter of minutes.

I never posted anything that stated you were not "awesome enough". I went so far as to ask you in consideration for the "undoubtly good guys" in your colony to stop the insulting and demeaning language. I would appreciate it if you would not misrepresent my postings, although in all fairness I should say that anyone can read the thread and draw their own conclusions.

COMPLETELY UNSOLICITED ADVICE - Don't make this about you - make your argument for Kappa Sigma colonizing without university approval in the best logical, rational way you can. Having done so, let those who disagree do the same without getting caught up in any personal animosity. Don't post anything which you wouldn't willingly submit to your HQ. In that way you can best advance your cause, represent your fraternity, and contribue to the community at Greek Chat.