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Originally Posted by NiaX
someone is harping on the wrong thing... the person that felt they had power over a person and the person that gave up their power.
but something isn't right with this question...
was it you or your friend that got punked?
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Neither, no imaginary friend and I'm still an interest...
I asked the question because it was just something I noticed in the wonderful world of Facebook, photo comments...
But also because of a text I received from a friend who is an interest in an another org and her disrespect of a current member in that org because the girl skated. I've never noticed this girl until recently as she was walking by herself with her org tote bag, even though I see other members of her org always together. And I wouldn't have known she skated if my friend hadn't informed me that she doesn't speak to her even at their events because the girl is a skater and has no pull (even though she's been a member going on 3 years now), my friend only wants to get in good with the members that matter (pledged) because they can get her in...
But personally, I would think that after a while how you came in would just be water under the bridge. Though I do understand the whole power aspect of it, someone may also choose not to do those things (wear para, etc.) out of respect for the members of the chapter...