[RaggedyAnn]

I had to reread this, and still have the same response. I took the post on a much higher level than an everyday indiscretion. The lines that stood out for me were:
"We're not asking you to give up anything. We aren't asking you to become something you aren't. We're asking you to become something more. We're inviting you to become part of a group of men who make a promise to take care of each other, every day. We're asking you to become the very best version of you that you can be. "

For me, this is like saying being a woman of "poise and purpose". I have some bad habits, but I try to live the ideals of my sorority.