Agreed. Intentions are important.
Dag, I mean this whole thread kinda puts a new spin on the idea of a "millenium woman"!
I agree that women should be EQUAL to men, that doesn't mean that we need to be the SAME as men. Not saying that it is okay for a man to tease, no no, but like lovelyivy84 said, women are expected to say no. I personally don't put myself in situations where I would have to test my self control. Women with any kind of self-respect and dignity woud not need to feel validated by turning a man on then turning him down. Not trying to beat a dead horse, but it DOES boil down to maturity.