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Old 04-03-2010, 01:37 AM
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Originally Posted by ASUADPi View Post
But we need to look at it from Anslee's point of view. From her standpoint, what Alaysia said was criticizing how she (Anslee) was raising her daughter. Plus, remember this is not the first time someone (wasn't it Anslee?) had an issue with. Alaysia just doesn't know when to keep her mouth shut. I understand that she is young, 18, but I'm sorry you know better by that age.

I don't blame Anslee one bit for getting as upset as she did. One thing we have to remember is Alaysia could have totally dissed Anslee as a mom but the editors cut it and just showed what Alaysia said and then Anslee's reaction.

Alaysia is the "child" here, not Anslee. Alaysia is the one who doesn't know how to keep her mouth shut and the other girls are reacting to it. Alaysia has obviously been raised that it's okay to "talk back" to others. I see it with 4 year olds, whose parents allow their child to talk back to them, hence they do it at daycare and they will continue to do it throughout their life because their parents won't take a stand and tell them "no we don't treat people and talk to people this way". Alaysia's behaviors are completely learned behaviors.
Were you speaking very generally or were you responding to a whole lot of things I never said? I can't tell.

I never said that Anslee did not have right to be as upset as she was or that Alaysia was not criticizing Anslee's parenting. Nor was the implication of my last sentence to say that Anslee was the "child" and Alaysia was not. I said that Alaysia did not directly say "You're a bad mom." I also feel that Anslee is not the "vastly mature" individual she pretends to be--she's 23 and she acts like it. That's it.
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