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Originally Posted by JohnnyCash
Yeah, there are. But most of the guys I consider close with are not active or have graduated, etc. This concern is mostly with the actives chapter. Sorry if that wasn't made clear.
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That's okay. You aren't going to be equally close with every class that comes through your fraternity. Personally, I was close with a couple people in classes ahead of me but mostly close with people in classes below me. It's different with everyone, but you won't be soul mates with someone in every year. That being said, you may be missing out on a close friendship with one of these guys because you haven't been putting in the effort. It's amazing how much in common you can have with a freshman even when you are a senior. I really bonded with a girl my senior year who I called JA (for Junior Active), and she called me SA (Senior Active). I didn't see myself having that relationship, but strange things happen when you put yourself out there.