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Old 05-13-2002, 10:28 PM
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Originally posted by TLAW
Lovely, I hear you, but I am still playing the role, okay. Are you saying that wanting a way out justifies cheating?
I'm not saying wanting a way out will justify cheating- I think that it is terrible to deliberately hurt another person that way instead of just being honest and telling them you don't want to be with them.

I was just trying to think of why the heck one would do something so destructive. I don't think that there is a justification for cheating personally (I'm sorry if people think I am being harsh, this is just my feeling on the subject). If you're not happy with your relationship then leave! You won't make anything better by staying and hurting the other person.
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