Woooaaahh! Thats way too complex SoCalGirl! I hope you and other girls like you come with an instruction manual . . . or at least some Quick Cue Cards!
But seriously: If a girl was really insistant like that I would wonder if it was really a "date" in her mind. Some serious kissing (or more
)at the end of the date would go a great distance to reasure me she wasn't trying to be just friends. Remember that ladies, if you pay on the first date or go dutch, and it is a date in your mind . . . kiss the boy a few times goodnight. OR don't expect another phone call! Because he will be posting his experience on some internet bulletin board and having other girls tell him its a blow off technique
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Although, I went out a few times with a girl that insisted on paying for the whole night each time, once she even picked ME up. I couldn't figure out whether we were going out as friends or as a "Couple with Potential". It turns out she was a serious feminist and was indeed interested (the calling me should have been a clue). . . but I never made the next physical step . . .
Also, in my case I had a best girl-pal that I spent a lot of time with who was jealous of my attention and didn't like this girl . . . who told me that the other girl wasn't interested . . . She was the last girl-pal I bothered to make by the way.
I would like to point out that girls are cruel and relentless to each other, especially when they are competing wih each other or dislike is present.
Well that post doesn't help you at all lol.
Did you at least hook-up with this paragon of the "modern woman"?
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Originally posted by SoCalGirl
K, if I invite him then I'll pay.
Otherwise it'd depend on my mood. If I've been aloof and snag the bill then I'm telling you BAH BYE!!!
If I've been really friendly, I'm showing that I don't have to depend on you to pay; but maybe I'd like too.
If I offer 50/50 then it's just a friend thing.
Course I have a friend that I had invited to a formal cause I thought it'd be fun. My formal, my invite, my bill. He then later took me out to dinner, and he treated. I thought cool, my buddy is paying me back. He then made a move and I had the hands down worst and most uncomfortable kiss of my life.  Signals definetly crossed.
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