[pinkyphimu]

That is unbelievable. I would definitely not bring a gift. A pretend wedding celebration...two years after the fact...without a wedding...is really just a fundraiser. Keep that picnic basket until you find a time to use it!! You could even write in a card something along the lines of...."Congratulations. I am so inspired by the love that you two share. Mr. Ree and I plan to take time each week to be together. We even purchased this great picnic basket that we will use when the weather gets warmer. While we are enjoying our time together, we will toast to you. We hope that some day, we can have a relationship as wonderful as yours." It might be hard not to puke while you are writing it tho.