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Well put, KSUViolet.
Smile_Awhile, what you're feeling is totally normal. Everyone has those tough days (or weeks or months) when they think "Why did I join this sorority / choose this major / take this job / date/marry this person / etc. ???"
That's when you need to take a step back and look at the big picture. Why did you join your sorority? Think about how you felt on pref night, on bid day, at your initiation. Think about where you'll be in 5 or 10 years, when you're an alumna. Step away from the day-to-day drama, spend time with non-sorority friends, etc. Don't skip mandatory things like chapter, obviously, but if there's a mixer or sisterhood event and you just don't feel up to it, skip it.
Take care.
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