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Originally posted by DST Love
"On another note, a caller to Dr. Laura (love her) said that her husband had to go on a three hour business trip by car with a woman. Dr. Laura said that her husband should rent his own car or drive his own car but should not ride in the car with this other woman. Now most people in this warped day and age would say it's not the serious because it's for work but once Dr. Laura broke it down, I definitely agreed. She said that once the husband and other woman would be in the car, the conversation would probably naturally shift from work to personal things (which is understandable). She then said that as the husband and woman may start to relax, laugh, talk about life, their lives, etc., then there is the possibility that they will start to view each other in a different manner other than work related (which is all they should be viewing each other as). Her point was maybe that wouldn't happen but maybe it would. Why take the chance if it could risk your marriage? And I couldn't agree more."
See this is why I keep saying don't put yourself in potential inappropriate situations.
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Glad to know that there are Black people who listen to Dr. Laura. Although I don't always agree with her, her advice is really common sense.
I totally agree about people who put themselves in appropriate situations and then say "things just happen". Every person makes decisions every day and there is a consequence for decisions.
Since the dirty deed has been done, the question is should you tell her or not. I suggest that you do, since the chances are that she will find out. You already told the internet world and you have already posted enough info. about yourself that anyone could potentially leak that info. to your fiancee.