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Originally posted by stoplook_listen
for HER mental and emotional well-being...don't put her thru the PAIN of the truth....believe me...she will never heal...even if she leaves you, she will have mad "issues" with her next man...and we've all dated a woman with issues (I hear Badu...Bag lady...you gon hurt you back...draggin all dem bags like that)
I know you feel bad and are hurting now, but believe me...you will feel WORSE if shit hits the fan...this will negatively impact her work, school, kids, family, etc....why cause all this unecessary grief? You've done enuf all ready.
Focus your guilt on NEVER doing this again. Telling her will not alleviate your guilt...it will make you and HER feel worse cause she'll rub it in your face DAILY (trust me I know)
...just givin you the real...Think about it....theirs not a woman or man who will refute the outcomes I've predicted.
..Be smart...don't be mislead by your heart
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This is not aimed only at Professor but, cheaters in general (men and women):
Don't you think that if people thought about their mate's "mental and emotional well-being" BEFORE cheating, they wouldn't be in this situations such as this one?