Thanks for the insight, Soror! If what you say is true, I stand even more firmly on my position that the Alphas should take some of the blame.
I think lots of thread-readers are assuming that I'm taking this position because of my unyielding, unwavering COLEMAN LOVE for my Bruhs, but that really isn't it at all! If the Bruhs had won and an Alpha had torn their check, I'd feel the same way. If the Sorors had won and an AKA had torn their check, I'd feel the same way. We are all supposed to be far above and beyond FIGHTING and I just don't buy that self-defense BS! Someone has to be the bigger person at some point.
And I'm O-U-T!!!