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...and another thing...some may say if you don't tell now,and she finds out later...it will be worse.....that's B.S!
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WHAT??? are you on crack??? Oh yeah, it couldn't get worse if she finds out later...EXCEPT WHEN YOU HAVE KIDS AND IT NOT ONLY SCARS HER BUT THEM FOR LIFE AS WELL!! Good lord! Look,Professor, I'm sorry, but you f-d up royally. No matter how you try to reassemble to pieces to make it look like an "accident" or "inevitable" or whatever, it's still broken. The end. At this point, it's not about you anymore. You OWE her the opportunity to make a choice: forgive you, or leave you. And you'll just have to deal with it, and just pray that she's more generous with you than you deserve. I'm sorry, but just because you weren't thinking of the consequences at the time, doesn't mean they're not waiting for you when the blood rushes back to your selfish head. If you don't tell her, rest assured she will find out eventually, and it will be ten times worse than anything that happens now, i.e. a messy divorce(most likely with her getting everything you own, as well as the kids). It also sounds like you're a religious man...just remember, you can try to hide your sins, but there's one person who will know no matter what, and lying will just add another sin to the list. Besides, if your wife to be does leave you(as almost any woman would), you'll probably get over it pretty quickly...after all, how quickly did you forget about her when you were being "seduced", eh? 3 minutes? It's sad really, and I would almost feel bad for you if I didn't feel worse for that poor woman who not so long ago stood beaming in front of you as you proclaimed your "undying"(ha!) love for her before your families and God.
