@GatorDG - good idea. When I asked them about sororities earlier they never mentioned you had to have recs or sponsors. But I guess you do. I'm having my dad look around for some recs from female coworkers because my mom went to a small college that did not have any sororities. I'm fortunate, however, to have that lady down the street who was into Greek life heavily at Vandy or Ole Miss (I can't remember).
Thanks for all the help
This has been an enormous learning curve for me!