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hurt = hurt
...and another thing...some may say if you don't tell now,and she finds out later...it will be worse.....that's B.S!
hurt = hurt. Sure she'll say she wish you would have told her and that she is hurt more now that you didn't. But she would just be saying that out of pain. Lets look at this thing LOGICALLY. What Worse thing could she possibly go thru or put you thru now, then later? If you tell her, or she finds out thru the grapevine...the same outcomes I listed before would happen. So nothing will be lost if she finds out on her own. She'd probably say some emotional shit like "I'd have had more respect for you if YOU told me and I didn't find out like this" WHATEVER...you think she would have respect for someone who cheated on her anyway? Once you cheat, you've lost her respect...so don't fall for that.
Say she finds out 2 months from now. You've actually done her a favor by not telling. You've SAVED HER 2 months of PAIN. Thats two less months of feeling sad, angry, hurt, worthless, rejected, disrespected, betrayed, etc. Why put her thru and EXTRA two months of pain. Think about it...what I'm saying makes SENCE.
Again, this is the real world, NOT TV...things don't work out all beautiful in the end if you do the "right thing"....The right thing is never to cheat again...howabout you do THAT. That is the onlything thats gonna make your relationship better.
be SMART!
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