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Originally Posted by Gatorbaby
I guess I do need to see how each and every one plays out in-person. I'll try to keep an open mind but I have friends (one or two per house - not a plethora) already in each of these Houses...so I guess I'm a little biased.
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Don't join a house simply because you have one or two friends there (unless the chapter is made up of four people). You have to get along with the chapter as a whole. And while you don't have to be BEST FRIENDS with every single girl, you want to feel comfortable and have a good time. These are the girls you will spend the rest of your college career with... in meetings, philanthropies, socials, ritual, etc.
Also, your friends most likely won't be the only ones deciding whether or not you will make a good sister. Therefore, if you're only aiming for those chapters, you might be very disappointed.