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Originally Posted by skparagon
I think the fraternity I pledged on campus (theta chi) is easily the best fraternity. Great guys, great service work, great parties, high gpa, etc. The problem is that I've found majority of theta chi chapters at other universities are a normally a bunch of "losers". They either have no social life in the greek community and are basically a community service club or just a bunch of nerds.
This really turns me off of being initiated at theta chi. The other fraternities that matter on campus and have a presence nationally (are top fraternities at other schools) are sigma phi epsilon and sigma chi.
It really bothers me and makes me want to de-pledge. But i'm 4 weeks into pledging and really got to know the brothers/pledge brothers. I really like them too, they're all great.
Has anyone else felt the same?
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How often are you going to hang out with/party with/see the guys at other chapters? If it really matters that much to you, then you should de-pledge.
But you are pledging YOUR chapter. If you like the brothers/pledge brothers at your school why do you even care what they are like somewhere else? Would you pledge a differently named group if they had these same guys as members? Or is status your ownly concern?