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I'm going to be honest.
Do not mention it! Better yet, don't hang out at the house if you DO really start dating him!
At my school, the girls who start hanging out at the fraternity houses straight out of high school are sort of looked down upon. A girl will say (oh, that girl has been at the Phi Kap house all summer...). I know it sounds mean, but it's true. Also, if you hang out there, the girls will scope you out, so you will have to walk on eggshells all the time.
Here's another problem. Let's say his fraternity house has mostly AAA sorority members that hang out there, and a couple of ZZZ sorority members. The ZZZ group might go back to their group and say "We should probably let her go since she has been hanging out with AAA all summer, and will probably go them..." Even if that is not true!!!!!! It can be perceived that way!
Yet another problem. If you don't know him well, he could be a total manwhore and you wouldn't know it. Then people might look at you and say "She dates that manwhore guy in XX".
I know this post sounds negative, but I am just trying to realistically present possible scenarios. I have seen everything listed actually happen during rush!
Let us know how it goes.
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