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Originally posted by theta sig agd
I would be concerned about those girls who didnt want to be in a "small" house. It sounds as if the girls going through your rush are there for the "image" and not the sisterhood. I was a charter member of my groups and we were small in the begining. Women didnt see that as a disadvantage at my campus.
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Unfortunately these small houses had to worry about a lot of stuff-for instance how they were going to fill their house and pay dues. One of the sororities started renting out rooms to college students (females only of course) b/c they could not make their house payments. One of my best friends from HS was in this chapter and though she loved it there were so many struggles that the other chapters did not have to worry about. It was stressful for her and the other girls at times. I did not join a larger house for the "image", I knew her and her sororities situation and I did not want to be in the same situation, neither did many of the rushees-esp. the older ones that knew it was a small house and knew that this would create a different sorority experience as far as the social aspect goes. That was the reality on my campus. Obviously yours is different.