Since its a fraternity guy, it may not be a problem.
When I rushed, I'd been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. One house (a very high-profile one) started grilling me about who I was going to take to football games (my guy was in band) and how would he feel about it if I had dates, etc. They didn't want to take a girl that they couldn't count on as eligible.
Yes, I brought him up. In terms of "wow, its so hot. my boyfriend is at band camp this week and it must be so hard to practice in this heat all day!" and thats when they started talking to me like that. I shouldn't have had to feel like having a steady boyfriend would hurt me in rush.
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