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Originally Posted by heywhatsup
Stupid question, I know. I am a freshman in college away at a university and I just got initiated into my sorority. I feel like everyone is so close with each other, and I guess my question is, how long did it take you all to become that way? (really close and comfortable with the girls/guys). I am a very outgoing person but since everyone already has their close friends in the sorority, I guess I am being kind of shy and leery about this whole thing.
Did anyone start off kind of left out and unsure, but completely got in the swing of things? Thanks!
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Not a stupid question at all.
Try to join some committees. Next time they ask for sisters to volunteer for a project/event/etc., do it! Working on something together is a great way to bond with others in the chapter. You may even find that you really like a particular aspect of your sorority and decide to run for a leadership position later.
You can also see if there are any sisters who have a class or two with you, and invite them to study (or even just contact them to ask a question about the class if you want to break the ice).
Good luck!
