[ComradesTrue]

First, I did not need google to know your school. There are plenty of people from that university who read these boards and will know the chapter that you are in. I say that not to be "creepy" but to give you one more opportunity to clean up some of your posts/delete identifying information. Chapter business should not be discussed here.

If you scan down to the very bottom of the page there are several links to prior threads about disaffiliating. You may also use the search function within Greekchat to locate more threads.

This board is filled with both actives and alumnae. Many of us come from the perspective of having a enriched experience not only as a collegian but also as an alumnae chapter member. That is probably why you are getting several responses about taking things slow, talk to professionals, etc. You could be making a HUGE mistake by throwing everything away right now. If you are a sophomore, then you only have 2 more years left as an active. Be very, very sure that you don't want to throw away a lifetime of alumnae opportunities.

Also- you mention that there are some members in your chapter who you do like. Focus on your relationships with those women. All chapters have some issues, as there will never be 150 women in one place who all agree on everything.

Finally, KSU is not being a jerk. She is a mental health professional who has offered you some very constructive advice.