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Originally Posted by gagirl90
And I would like to say one last time, that I just want to hear the POV of someone who has or is considering deactivating since none of my friends/ family can relate, and I have already spoken with my 2 close friends in XYZ. I thought posts from others who have been through this could be helpful since I have no access to that at home. That's it, please and thank you. I'll get back on to check for that, but to the rest of yall, we are just wasting eachother's time.
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Actually, I have been there thank you very much. I struggled with my decision for a long time. It was a difficult time where I had to really sit down and evaluate what I was feeling and what I wanted. Random advice from strangers would not have helped. There is no "I want to drop my sorority" manual or guidelines. This is a decision that you will have to make and live with. You should not let some random strangers influence that. And I think you are wrong about your parents/friends not being able to relate. While they may not have been in the exact situation you are in, I bet they have been in similar ones. They can also provide you with an alternate perspective on your situation that we can't because we do not know you or your situation. I wish you luck in whatever you decide.