
03-11-2010, 02:45 AM
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Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel
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You mentioned having some emotional issues, and you've sought help. Keep doing that with professionals and don't take it personally if your sisters don't get as involved as you expect them to. Sometimes people really don't see another needs help, can't emotionally deal with it, or have the same issue and helping you makes them face it. It isn't that sisters cannot be supportive and a great resource, but use the campus professionals like the health and counseling center and I commend you for admitting you have issues and that you've gotten help. Many people are in denial or refuse to do something about it and you've done the hardest part. Maybe taking care of "you" will help you see the perspective of your chapter and you'll learn a better way to address issues or get to the heart of the matter.
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This.
Don't think they're being insensitive if they don't respond in the way you'd like them to. Often, people get upset because those around them aren't immediately recognizing that they're having a hard time with something. But they're not trained professionals and sometimes they don't get it. It's not that they do not care about you.
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