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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
You go to an SEC school. Typically, there chapters at those schools are quite large.
I find it hard to believe that you cannot find one or 2 girls you can trust to discuss your feelings.
I'm sorry, but coming here and talking badly about them and making them sound like image obsessed freaks doesn't make you look better.
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I'm not trying to do that. I don't think they're freaks. I do think they are more concerned with image than I am, and have different priorities than I about their college experience. I'm not trying to bash them but to ask for advice on people's experience disaffiliating, I should give background.
Considering most of my friends are nongreek, and I am the only Greek in my family, it is hard to find an unbiased but informed opinion. And like I said, the girls I am closest with are the graduating seniors (who should have no effect on my choice since they'll be gone) or a few girls in my PC that are not very involved (Our chapter is only about 150 total since our quota is usually btwn 40-50, we have deferred rush, and a fair amount of girls drop, compared to others) I also find this inappropriate to discuss with my little or the other freshman I am close with- what a load to bear right after being initiated!!!
I'm sorry, maybe we have different opinions about how I should ask for advice but I discovered this board and thought it would be useful. Maybe you aren't the right person to answer this, though I appreciate your input. Hopefully someone who can relate to the scenario will stumble upon this.
Thanks anyways for your help so far!