We are told not to bring up boys during recruitment. Could you imagine if this conversation took place? (and it did a few years ago in my chapter):
Recruiter: So, do you have a boyfriend?
PNM: Yes I do.
Recruitoer: Does he go to school here? What's his name?
PNM: Yeah, he goes to school here. His name is Billy Bob.
Recruiter: Wait a minute....Billy Bob? But, that's my boyfriend! (starts sobbing)
PNM: Uh-oh...looks like I'm not getting into this sorority.
So, as you can see, boys are a no-no subject. Most girls will not bring it up. And, it's not a subject that as a PNM I would bring up. I'd be more interested in what the chapter does and their sisterhood. I'll admit, a few houses asked if I had a high school sweetheart that I was still dating. When I answered yes, a girl from XYZ said, "Oh wow! Well, most people who are still dating their sweethearts when they come to college won't make it past November!"
I dropped that house on the first day. And, she was wrong...we made it until March.
