sezZeta...when I said its not that serious..as I was reading ur post I felt some not so good vibes..rather heated..and that it is why I meant its not that serious..I wasnt saying anything else.. and I wasnt directing the comment to ANYONE in particular..considering that I always look through the web..I read MANY posts from different sites, including the BET site, some really rude and shallow about the BET step off..And, because I did my research, I was stating for people not to forget about the service part..thats it...Please, Im not hear to battle, Im here to research, and absorb, Im here as an outsider looking in...And if Im a member of a org. OR not I still have my views and thats all I was doing...having my views and sharing it with you guys...Please lets just squash this..Cause this is not what I wanted my posts to reap...