[acedawg00-02]

I think that discussions like this are great...and we're all entitled to our opinion...however...

It's quite obvious that this young lady wasn't too concerned about privacy and discretion when she PUBLICLY disrespected herself, her partner and her relationship.

People have grown tired of having to remain silent when it comes to abusive relationships, cheating and betrayal...and I'm not sure as to why you're so moved to call the young man a "scumbag" b/c had she NOT conducted herself in such a manner, there would be nothing to discuss.

In my humble opinion, she got what she deserved...and considering the fact that she continued to lie and cheat after finding the ring . . . and still, arrogantly, expected a proposal -it should have been 10X's worse.

Some people have lost their lives behind such irresponsible behavior. If I'm correct, the ex-wife of a Texas dentist is serving a 10 year prison sentence for running over her cheating husband three times with a car. Others have even experienced the pain of hot oil or grits on their skin (ask Al Green).

I'm definitely not in favor of violence, but there is no telling what a person will do until they're in a particular situation.

Again, whether it's a male or female, people are fed up and tired of "turning the other cheek."

I'm reminded of an old saying, "don't start no mess and there won't be no mess."

We all have a breaking/snapping point - and sometimes it's just best not to be stupid enough to test it.

Perhaps we should just bring back the stockades...LOL!

Anyway, my point remains...treat others the way in which you want to be treated...it's quite simple.