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It's different for everyone. But usually there's some sort of public display, either through a song or just saying something among his brothers or your sisters, and then he'd give you a necklace with his letters on it.
I was lavaliered when my boyfriend and I (waaaaaay back when) were dating for about 3 years. He pledged when we were dating for about a year and a half, and he wanted to make sure he was in the fraternity long enough. Basically, if you've just pledged and then you want to give your letters away to your girlfriend, the rest of the brothers would probably be like, "What the fuck?????" It's almost like he needs to earn the letters and learn what they mean and what the brotherhood is all about before he can give them away.
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