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Originally Posted by als463
I think the reason she asked that was because in the NPHC, you are expected to choose one specific organization you want and work toward getting into that organization, not look at a few. While looking around may seem like a good idea, in the NPHC, I think it is seen as disrespectful.
All of the NPHC organizations have something incredible to offer, so I can see how you would be wanting to look at all of them.
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All of this depends on what the aspirant does when he/she is researching and looking at a few. Discretion and moderation are key. Everyone doesn't have to know your thought process or research guide. It also depends on campus dynamics.
You can attend programs for different orgs without being an instant interest and aspirant. If you are brown nosing and getting in good with every org then, yeah, people are going to think you just want to be GREEK. Also, (even in the pre-1990 and pre-1980 days on many campuses) you don't want to be known as an indecisive flip flopper or a drop-out from different orgs' lines. Dropping line from one org and crossing another is generally more scoffed at now than it was back then for a few reasons.