Honestly to answer your question from the beginning, everyone wants to believe that their own sorority or fraternity is known as "elite" or even the best. And every person on here could tell you that their own is elite or the best for different reasons such as how old they are, or how big they are at their school but the thing is, everywhere you go things are different. Some of the sororities that everyone thinks are the best, don't even exist at some schools. And boy do they change from state to state, I am a phi mu, and my cousin went to a school that had it, but it's just not the same at her school, she's now an achio, and she loves it,that was for her. So, when you say it is not about what is in your heart, you are wrong. It's about taking what you have to give, finding the people that you want to give it to, and making those friendships "elite" that is what's important.
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