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Originally Posted by Geauxme
@ 33girl... do they have something way up here? If so, send me a pm or post a link so I can check it out 
@Aopirose: Thanks for the links, I'll see if I can figure something out.. it's just an overwhelming amount of information lol
I am going to let it go in regards to her not following through, as for the reasons? I know exactly why she hasn't followed through, and it turns out there has been a lot more things going on with this person than the rest of the family ever imagined! It's just so sad when no one knows how to handle it, and it just keeps escalating.. I can live with what she's done to me.. I mean, I still have time to fix it, but other things that have come out are just downright appalling! |
So are you looking for help on how to acquire recs or how to deal with a family member lying?
In pursuing recs from people not associated with your family member, I highly suggest not bringing up the family drama. In other words, don't say "I'm writing to you because my family member was supposed to get me all these recs and she lied to me, so now I am stuck".
If do you know any of the people personally, just ask them directly.
I guess at this point, in terms of recruitment, pretend it never happened and do it all yourself anyway. AOPIROSE had great advice (directly from the school itself). Just let the drama go, and move on. Quickly. And good luck.