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Originally Posted by 33girl
Go back to the first post and the way she answered the question. Almost like "well if guys are coming that I can flirt with, I'm there, but if it's going to be OVERRUN WITH HORDES OF GAY MEN I'll just stay home."
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That's what I thought she was trying to find out too, but maybe not from a homophobic stance, just a what are my odds of love perspective?
Or that she might have a particular crush on one friend and wanted to know if that person would be there.
I think it's a hard question to ask in a way that doesn't make it seem like you are going to accept or regret the invitation just base on the guest list, which seems tacky.
I think we always want to know who else is going, but I don't think that's how invites usually work.