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I'm putting on my mommy hat: (Assuming that the OP isn't a troll but some of her questions are in a way legitimate.)
So, here goes: If you are in an exclusive loving relationship the answer is the same as if you were a married women (or man). There are hott guys out there. Look but don't touch. If you touch be prepared to lose the relationship. Period.
I think that you misstated your question about paying money for nothing. I truly don't think that the OP meant buying friends. You want to have fun. You're paying your dues and you're not having fun. Go to lunches and dinners as often as you can. Volunteer. If you don't have a Big try talking to your pledge mother. Engage people in conversation, study sessions etc.
Good luck.
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