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Originally Posted by MaggieXi
...So what I'm getting at is: your big might be your big on paper, but that doesn't mean she has to be that roll in your life. I would reach out to her and try - but if it doesn't work and you think that you can't handle the fact that she has taken another little (but at least she told you about that, which is good that she respects you enough to be honest) try to work on relationships with others you think can be good friends with.
...Also, when you get your little, remember and teach her that this relationship is a 2 way street.
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Like MaggieXi said, it's a 2 way street. Your big doesn't seem to be making much of an effort to see you. I mean you were a freshman and sometimes it can be a tough transition, plus you had alot of personal problems going on. Your big should have been there for you and helping you get through it instead of just letting your relationship crumble.
Also, I've had an adoptive big from pretty much the beginning of my time in my sorority and she's been amazing.
So, the bright side is you have a bunch of other sisters to be close with and you can build a fabulous relationship with a little of your own
