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Old 02-20-2010, 12:48 AM
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Originally Posted by jgreiman View Post
This spring at SU I rushed and was called back to TKE. Over the course of the week I thought I got along with the brothers fine. I made callbacks and even had a senior brother put in a good word in for me. On bid day I didnt recieve a bid though but wasnt surprised due to the fact that 500 kids rushed. I have two questions should I rush the same house in the fall and could anyone give me any insight as to why I didnt recive a bid.
I can answer both your questions.

No, you shouldn't rush the same house again, and it's fraternity, not "frat."

You didn't get a bid because they voted on you, and probably had some not too light discusion about you, but in the end, at least one brother in that organization had a strong problem making you his brother. So strong of a problem that it didn't happen. And it won't. Don't dwell on it, rush more than one fraternity, and keep your mind open.

Good luck.
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