I personally don't call people cheating a mistake. A mistake is when you grab the wrong keys for the car or something. Cheating is a conscious decision. You can't tell me that when people cheat they are not even for a quick moment thinking about the person they are cheating on. They just don't care enough to not go through with it.
No I have never cheated on my fiance or anyone else and never will. Of course there have been situations in the past where I could have but once I realized that situations had the potential to get out of hand for whatever reasons, I removed myself from them permanently. There will always be tempting situations but one has to take every measure to remove themselves from those situations.
Again, back to my previous post, I would love to eat junk everyday (can't you tell I love junk
) but I can't. So I don't keep any junk in the house. If I get a taste for some junk during those five days then the fact that I would have to leave the house to go buy it forces me to think about if I really NEED it or just WANT it. However, if I had the junk constantly in my house, then I would probably eat it every rip.
Point: Don't put yourself or don't let others put you in tempting situations, because we are humans and when constantly tempted, we probably are doomed to give in.
I'm not trying to be harsh just dropping my opinion. And yes I believe someone can be forgiven after cheating and things can work out afterwards. However, why not just save all the hurt and drama by not cheating in the first place. That's all I'm saying.