[AOII Angel]

I completely agree with Raggedy Ann. Instead of obsessing about your relationship with your big, just see where it goes. It may never be much of a relationship. Instead, find your Little and be the best Big you can be. Make relationships with other sisters on a basis you are comfortable with so you don't have to try so hard. Sometimes these Big/Lil relationships are set so quickly that you don't really find out that you aren't a perfect fit. It's not the end of the world. I'm lucky to have a good relationship with my Big, but we don't have that much in common. We just have a respect for each other that comes from shared experiences. That's enough for us.