I totally agree that men get a bad rap. Women are always saying "he this" and "he that!" I certainly am not advocating cheating is responsible for men or women. My point is I can now see more clearly how men are lured to other women. For me, I had no intention to start my marriage with this hanging over my head. The fact of the matter is that is was not emotional - - just timing and a physical thing. I'm not in love nor do I have any feelings for the young lady. She seduced me and at some point I just was not strong enough to resist. I'm sorry it happened. This experience has just been an eye opener for me. Clients and friends that talk of the issue of cheating normally get no sympathy from me but I now have first hand experience and realize that there can be contributing factors other than ones mate not satisfying him or her.
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Originally posted by Koss28
I get tired of all this men cheating crap and male bashing stuff going around. I've never cheated on a GF before I've been cheated on by 2 and of course I didn't get any sympathy. It was always the "What did you do to them?" response that I got. So I think it can go both ways. Another guy I knew had been married like 15 or 20 years and found out his wife had been cheating on him ever since they got married and they had 2 children. So all I can really say if, "You do the vice, you pay the price." If you're will to cheat be it man or woman then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
Koss28
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