Just thought I'd throw this out there... maybe we shouldn't be discussing something like this on a public board? Afterall, aren't most Greek membership selection processes private to only their initiated members? Anyone could be reading this...
In my opinion, this should be dealt with in the chapter where the problem is occuring. Look to the advisors and volunteers that work with your chapter to find alternatives and a solution if the chapter members cannot come up with one on their own. But by all means, misleading a PNM about the recruitment process may not be the best idea.
Just my $.02!
