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Old 02-18-2010, 01:45 PM
DiamondAthena DiamondAthena is offline
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Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito View Post
I have a wild idea for you. Trying reaching out to people. Honestly it takes works to make friends. It's not going to be OMG WE ARE BFF just because you got a bid. Make an effort to get to know the girls.
THIS.

It just seems that so many new members think that friendship is automatic and goes with the territory of being in a sorority. You're not going to make friends automatically or without effort on your part in ANY setting. You can't expect the sisters to do the work and include you all the time especially outside of the house. Find out who has common interests like major/minor and extracurricular activities and go from there. And give it time for goodness sake it's only been a month!
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