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In most southern cities they do include the Greek affiliation with the engagement announcements, deb articles, philanthropy activities, etc. Sorority affiliation is definitely a part of the social scene. Whether you are a social buff or not, it puts us in the paper in a favorable light and may contribute to the popularity of sororities in the south.

With regard to "is" or "was" I think its more in reference to whether you are an active member or an alum. My guess is they view being in a sorority as a phase that is associated with being in college. Rightly or wrongly, I can see their reasoning, because there is a difference in the level of involvement when you are an active vs. when you're alum.