[OhSoVeryLadylike]

I came in close contact with a perpertrator of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Incorporated. She worked in my office with me. But, as an interested person, I felt who was I to question her a MEMBER. So I just went along with whatever until things started to not add up like when we went to events together she would stand in line with me instead of going to ladies table get her “love” she her “love” and get in free, she would pay her dollar like everyone else. Then my close friend who is a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity Incorporated who is the PR person for my school’s pan-Hellenic council saw me at a game with her beside her car with the “AKA 1908” license plate and asked whose car was I in, he know I did not go and cross without telling him. He continued to go off on a mad tangent I finally got him to calm down and told him whose car it was. And he was like you should ride back to school with me and he told me in the car he did not she was Greek, which he knows most Greeks on our campus and around the city. Then when we could go to her apartment and she would make us wait at the door and one time I went into her bedroom and saw that all of her “greek apparel” was gone. She said that she was made at a city-wide chapter in California (I later found out it did not exist) she was also heard said she was made at our school’s chapter (she was 32 so she could have been, but she was not). She was found out at graduation when wore an AKA stole and no body knew who she was, I do not know the exact details of what went down. I do not know why she did it, but I later found out that she often reinvents herself.
Now when I meet people I look and casually bring up their name to people who I know are members. I know it’s not my place but I can’t look to someone I can not trust for advance about how to pursue an organization she is not even a member of.
I know me personally I want all the rights and privileges of a MEMBER of this great organization, I don’t want to have to watch every word I say, just to get FALSE LOVE because someone thinks I am member and I am really not, because one day I would be found out. It is not worth it. Not AT ALL.


I want all sides of the DEAL I want the working side and showing side. I want it ALL. And if I am BLESSED I will get it all. And if I never do then, it was not meant to be and I will definitely not pretend to be a member. My mother, grandmothers, cousins, aunts and friends would kill me for dishonoring their beloved organization it is not worth it, NOT AT ALL.